Home Judaism Jewish Life Cycle Weddings

Wedding

What is a Chuppah?

According to the Jewish view of marriage, the purpose of marriage is both companionship and procreation. The Chuppah is a marriage canopy that symbolizes the couple's first home together. During the Jewish wedding ceremony, the bride and groom stand under the Chuppah. Under the Chuppah, blessings are recited, the wedding ring is given, the Ketubah is read out loud, and the glass is broken.

Read more...

 

What is an Aufruf?

Question: What is an Aufruf?

Answer:
Aufruf ("call up" in Yiddish) is the ceremony in which the groom is called up to recite the blessing over the Torah in synagogue.

Read more...

 

Jewish Marriage

Judaism views marriage as the ideal human state. Both the Torah and the Talmud view a man without a wife, or a woman without a husband, as incomplete. "A man who does not marry is not a complete person." (Lev. 34a) "Any man who has no wife lives without joy, without blessing, and without goodness." (B. Yev. 62b)

In addition, Judaism views marriage as holy, as a sanctification of life. The word kiddushin, which means "sanctification", is used in Jewish literature when referring to marriage. Marriage is seen as a spiritual bonding between two people and as the fulfillment of God's commandment.

Furthermore, Judaism views marriage as purposeful. The purposes of marriage are both companionship and procreation. According to the Torah, woman was created because "It is not good for a man to be alone." (Genesis 2:18) In addition, marriage enables fulfillment of the first commandment: "Be fruitful and multiply." (Gen. 1:28)

Read more...

 

Marriage in Judaism

The Jewish view of marriage is that marriage is a fusion of the souls, a partnership for life. 

God created the first man, Adam, and the first woman, Eve, from one body. Marriage returns us to oneness. Men and women become complete through marriage. Rabbinic tradition teaches that a marriage will only be peaceful if God is a part of the union. The Hebrew word for man is EISH, which is spelled Aleph - Yud - Shin.

The Hebrew word for woman is EISHA, which is spelled Aleph - Shin - Hay. The letters Yud and Hay combine to form the Hebrew name for God.  Removing the letters Yud and Hay (God) from the words EISH and EISHA, leaves the letters Aleph and Shin. Aleph and Shin spell ESH, which is the word for fire.  Thus, Judaism teaches that if God is not made a part of the union between a man and a woman, then the couple will be left with fire.

 

 

Read more...

 

The Chuppah

According to the Jewish view of marriage, the purpose of marriage is both companionship and procreation. The Chuppah is a marriage canopy that symbolizes the couple's first home together.  During the Jewish wedding ceremony, the bride and groom stand under the Chuppah. Under the Chuppah, blessings are recited, the wedding ring is given, the Ketubah is read out loud, and the glass is broken.  The Chuppah is basically a piece of cloth held up by four poles. Some people use a tallit prayer shaw for the Chuppah cloth. The Chuppah is open on all sides, which is reminiscient of the hospitality Abraham and Sarah showed guests in their open tent. The Chuppah is usually held outside, under the stars, just prior to sundown, as a reminder of the blessing given by God to Abraham, that his children will be as numerous "as the stars of the heavens."

 

 
More Articles...
Search
Shopping Cart

Your Cart is currently empty.