Elul
Elul, the Hebrew month preceding Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, is a time of introspection, repentance, reconciliation, and heightened spirituality.
Why Observe Elul?
If one has prepared physically for a race, the race experience is more likely to be positive. And if one has prepared spiritually for the Jewish Days of Judgment and Atonement, the High Holy Days experience is more likely to be positive too.
How To Observe Elul?
These three suggestions for ways to observe Elul aim to help you prepare spiritually for Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur.
1. Better Yourself
In preparation for the New Year and Day of Atonement, Elul is the perfect time to honestly critique past behavior and commit to better behavior. What mistakes did you make this past year? How can you be a better person in the upcoming year? Who do you want to be?
Suggestion #1: Make a list of changes you want to make in yourself. Be sure to include concrete ways to make those changes. For example, if you want to lose weight, commit to which days you will go to the gym.
2. Improve Relationships with Others
According to Jewish tradition, Elul is the time to resolve relationships with others by asking forgiveness for wrongdoings. In addition to improving upon old relationships, Elul can be an opportunity to build new relationships with your family and friends.
Suggestion #2: Make a list of those people with whom you would like to improve upon an old or build a new relationship. Include ways to make the changes. If a disagreement with a friend stands unresolved, pick up the phone and resolve it. If you want to improve your relationship with your teenage son, commit to times and plan activities to do with him.
3. Move Closer to God
"God is my light and my helper, whom shall I fear?" (Psalm 27). Every day during the month of Elul, Psalm 27 is recited. In addition, sometime during the month of Elul (depending on your synagogue's custom), selichot prayers asking forgiveness from God are recited. Lastly, the shofar, whose blasts remind us that God is our King, is sounded following weekday morning prayer services during Elul.
Suggestion #3: Attend your synagogue's morning prayer services, at least some mornings, during the month of Elul. If preferred, in your home, with your family, you can recite and discuss psalm 27 and the selichot prayers and you can blow a symbolic toy horn. The special prayers and sound of the shofar will help you to prepare spiritually for the upcoming High Holy Days.
A New Beginning
Now that you have maximized Elul as an opportunity to better yourself, improve your relationships with others, and move closer to God, it is time to wish you a Shana Tova (Happy New Year) and Gmar Chatima Tova (Good Signing in the Book of Life)!
Licensed by Lisa Katz